I wanted to get some opinions from the military community.
OP (Sailor) is going to be his brothers best man. Brother and other groomsmen are Airmen and will be wearing their mess dress. The bride doesn't want OP in uniform because he will not match the other servicemen in the bridal party and wants OP in a tux instead. OP is wondering if he's the asshole.
Personally, I'm wondering if OPs brother is suffering from ribbon rack envy. What do you all think?