I don't know if this is the right subreddit for this, but I wanted some opinions on letters during basic training. There's a guy that I like that just left for boot camp, and I miss him a lot. We didn't date or anything, but we did have something in which we did hook up occasionally and talk all the time (calling, texting). I want to write him a lot, but I'm worried that would come off as clingy or strange from someone who isn't his girlfriend. For those who have been to basic, how would you have felt about excessive letters from someone you had a casual relationship with? Would you have felt put off?