Wife’s first visit to VA hospital after getting service connected. She’s been out since 02. Wife says nurse was aggressive and overly nosy. 1. Why did you wait so long? 2. Are you getting back paid by the VA for the last 20 years? Are you getting paid by the VA now? 3. Do you own your own home? 4. Are you worried about losing it?

We’ve both worked in the civilian world for the last 35 years and done pretty well for ourselves. Why would she ask these things and why is it any of her business? It feels like none of those were related to my wife’s healthcare. Wife’s issues are mst and JP8 exposure related.